The Progress on The Girl's Home

Check out the picture of the girl's home under construction last month.



Now check it out in this picture taken on June 25th.

The Girl\'s Home on June 25th, 2008

The progress in less than four weeks is great.  The girls are watching the work very closely. This is their home and they are excited. I really want for all of us to be in one place and so I am praying that we will be able to raise the funds to complete this house by November.

Thank you again to everyone who is helping to make this great work possible.

Cooking Food, the Price of Gas, and our New, More-Efficient Cooker

I'm sure everyone is well aware that the price of fuel has been going up.  It's been straining us here too.

Charcoal has become very expensive here because of the ban by the government on cutting trees.  This is, however, our least expensive way to cook.  Electricity is currently not possible for us and gas is expensive and can only be purchased in Kigali.  So we spend $20 to retrieve it and for $86 purchase a small tank that lasts less than a month.  There is no truck to deliver gas like in the US.

Looking for a solution, we discovered a new, much more efficient design for a cooker.  We had it build in a single day.  It is made of cement but has three cooking holes and uses a third of the charcoal and can burn scrap wood.  We have lots of that from old scaffolding.  It's a step in the right direction and makes sure we all have properly cooked meals.

Our new cooker

It may be reaching a bit, but it reminds me of the old Iron cook stove in my Gram's house when I was a kid.  Any way you look at it though, we're please to be doing more with less, making better use of the materials and gifts available to us.

Playing Football in the Fields

An open field

One day, a day care or clinic will be on this land, but until the funds come, the land will not sit idly by.  As children tend to do, praise God, our boys see the open land and immediately use it to play football (aka soccer.)  The boys are now using the basketball court and the cement is hard on the balls as well as the knees and elbows of the boys when they fall which is often.  Much like life, soccer is a fall down, get back up, and keep on going kind of game.  I think we need some kind of protection for the knees and elbows but until then falling on dirt will be much better than cement.

The Season's Disturbance is Global

In Rwanda, we are dealing with the change.  The dry season has finally come.  The wet season which normally lasts three months, lasted five.  You would think that is good but it surely confused the crops and those waiting to begin the harvest. Even though the rains continued, the growing season stopped.

The farmers are not sure when to plant the next crop.  We wonder, will the dry season also last five months?  When should we prepare the soil and plant?  This was not my problem but now that we have farm land and plan a garden, I also am concerned. I will however leave these decisions to those who are more experienced than I.

Visitors from the U.S. in June

I had hoped to share pictures of Cindy Grieshaber and her daughter Jillian from Bethlehem, PA teaching Tennis to our kids, but alas my computer crashed recently.  Hopefully they will be recovered soon and I can share them as well as pictures from the visit of my Grandson Timothy Brown from Williamsport, PA.

I want to thank them for all the help and work they did while they were here. The kids want to know when are they coming back.  Me too.

Computer Problems Slowed My Correspondence This Last Month

Today, I'm posting all the great news that took place in June.  I am fine even though you have not heard from me.  Computer problems continue to plague me.  This time it was not the internet, but actually my computer that took a turn for the worse.

Most computers can be repaired in Rwanda, but the Mac is not yet supported here.  The repair people won’t even look at it, which I guess is good since they could do more damage by not being trained for that work.  There's a job opportunity for someone versed in the Mac who'd like to come to Rwanda.  More and more people are needing that service here, not just me.  The Mac seems to be very popular with Americans coming to work in Rwanda.

Fortunately, two wonderful people from the U.S., Paulette and Rich Whitekettle, parents of my friend Christie who works with Food for Hungry, were ready to return to the US and offered to take the very sick computer to the Apple store where they live.  The sad part is that the technician at the store said there was water in the PC and the cost of repair would be over $800 USD.  This is a lot of money for me.

I am currently working on a Dell now and a gentleman from Austria gave me his old computer, a Toshiba, but alas I know his intentions were good but the thing is in German and I do not know German. Oh, he did tell me I can go on line and get the words I need to use it.  We’ll see.

Enough about the communication problems. I’m back with the Dell and am praying for the return of a good used Macbook to replace my old one.  Fortunately, I still have a backup of all my files.

Settling Into the Boy's Home, Laying the Foundation for the Girl's Home, and Much More

There is much to report for the month of May on Urukundo Village. For those new to Hope Made Real, Urukundo Village is our new home that we are currently trying to build on land that we actually own so that our work and these children have a place they can truly call home.

Our Great Progress


We have purchased 2.4 acres of land and it is ours, completely complying with all Rwandan government regulations, bought and paid for.  We are so happy to have land to call our own, to grow our good works, and to give these children a true sense of the word "Home".



The boys moved into their new home on April 23rd, 2008 on what was a joyous day and a small house for the caregiver in charge is also completed. It will initially be where I live and then for whoever follows me.



We have also bought a small house close to the boy's home and are renovating it to use it as a charcoal kitchen.



We have built roads to the existing buildings for easy access. Electricity and water have not been easy to get connected to both houses.

The Girl's Home in the Early Stages




In this photo you can see the foundation is nearly completed for the girls home. We need your help to complete this project both financially and with your thoughts and prayers. Living in two different areas is not good for us and hopefully we will be rejoined once the Girl's home is completed.

Our Play Area


Lastly, we have completed the play area to keep our kids safe. This consists of a basketball, volleyball and tennis court combination and a Karate practice area. It is good to see our children doing the thing children should do: just enjoy being kids.


Your Help and Support Make It Possible


Thank you again for your contributions and support. Please help bring our children together in one place enabling us to better care for them. God has been good to us. Things are changing here and making the right decisions is so important. Please pray for wisdom for yours truly as we proceed.

A Memorial Center to Honor Those Who Have Shared Their Love

There is a lovely garden where a Chapel will be established. In that garden currently stands our Memorial Center in the form of this simple tiki hut. It is to remember those who have supported Urukundo Home for Children in Hope Made Real Village.



Ada Esther Griffith, deceased
Herbert Beaver, deceased
Mary Richardson’s Mother, deceased
Elma Arlene (Musser) Gsellman, In her honor.

Your memory and contribution to our world will always be with us.

Bees Ain’t All Honey

Strange title for this story, but believe me I do know the truth of it. Every day is exciting here but some days more than others.
There were bees everywhere.
Millions of bees.

Today was moving day for the boys to the village and the truck arrived to take bed frames, mattresses and other items. We were all helping load the truck. I did not anticipate trouble as a strange dog came to check out the activity. Our dogs saw the stranger. The dogs sniffed each other as dogs do and decided they were not friends. A scrimmage took place on the guest-house lawn. Suddenly all the dogs started to screech and howl and run in circles biting at themselves. "What in the world?" What I saw set me in motion at once.

There were bees everywhere. Millions of bees. The strange dog took off howling down the road, bees in pursuit and our dogs ran screaming as only dogs can scream back in the direction of the boys home. Bees, when angry, do not give up the chase and now the entire area was a mass of bees. We would soon be in the middle. The bees were everywhere and more were coming out of the ground. I needed to get the kids out of there, and quick. The kids didn't see what was happening. They heard me yell and started to run toward the house and thank God they followed me.

It is hard to make scared kids understand, “Don’t throw your arms. Just run. Run!" In English it just does not come across easily.

You might be surprised to see how fast this woman can run given the right incentive. I ran with the kids following me and we arrived at the front door of the boy's home. By this time the bees had reached the kids and they were being stung. Once inside I had to yell at the top of my lungs for them to hear me. They needed to stand still. Now it was a matter of keeping the doors and windows shut and picking bees out of hair, off clothes and out of body parts.

I thought I should go for help. I had to go through the bees to get repellent. The walk to my house took forever. I covered myself as best as I could. While walking I tried to warn people going in the other direction, but again the language barrier made things difficult. Smiling at me they continued to walk into the bees and then turned screaming and running helping to spread the bees further and further. I did not get stung on the way to get the repellent. I spayed myself and started back. Hurrying back to the boys' home with repellent, a young man who wanted a job started walking with me. I tried to tell him this was not the time but he continued anyway. Suddenly we reached the bees and he started swinging his arms. I was under full attack. I had not sprayed my face and so my face became the target. I have a big nose and the bees found it very easily. They stung outside and inside, under my eyes, and on my cheek bones. My face became a battle zone and I ran spraying my head to get inside. Picking bees off when the stinger is still attached is weird. My staff were waiting and cleared my face. The stingers left me in pain.

Bees in Africa are very dangerous. I would find out soon enough, but right now I needed to get the boys out of danger. Thank God for mosquito nets. In order to get the boys to safety past the bee zone, I started a search and found three mosquito nets in a packed box. The kids laughed as Mama tucked them together under the nets. They thought it was funny. I showed them how to hold the net tight around their knees and told them to walk quickly to the girls home and stay there. God is good. None of the kids were affected by the experience.

Things finally quieted down after several hours and I was able to relax. Big mistake, now I could feel what was happening to me. My face felt as though I had been beaten. I could not touch my nose as there was so much pain. It felt broken and was on fire and my eyes burned as well. I managed to get to my home with the help of Etienne, my guard, to where Carrie, a visiting missionary, put cold compresses on my face to stop the terrible heat. I took an antihistamine that Etienne found in the little clinic. I was having a violent reaction to the poison. Thank God I survived a nasty bee attack that I am told could have been fatal.

Two people, a young man and a woman, ended up in the hospital. We are not yet sure if there are other reactions to the bee attack.

That surely was enough excitement to last a long time.

Thanks for letting me share.